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    10/9/2009

    幸福一岁

    去年今天,是我记事以来最感动的日子,因为经历了女人最受难的一个小时后全身的舒畅淋漓,看到了在腹中蜗居了281天的女儿在身边努力张开肺部呼吸的样子,在那个深夜在产房里,和一身白大褂的老公一起见证了家庭添丁那一瞬间的成就感。
     
    印象最深的词就是肖大民时候写的分娩日记,他所描绘的那一个星期曰“恍若隔世”; 产房里婴儿的弱弱的啼哭在一年后成了耳畔最动听的依依呀呀奶声奶气;当时满头大汗知道看见我生下孩子后还不知所措地问我疼不疼,要不要喝水,却忘记看看孩子是男是女的傻傻肖大民现在已经做了一年的爸爸,会烧饭会带孩子了;我这头服役一年的奶牛也成了熟练工,除了偶而看着不吃饭的茜米会气急败坏之外,大部分时间偶还是个相当称职的娘。
     
    可喜可贺,体重甚至比结婚前都要轻了,但是不可否认的是一年的奶牛生涯确实是有影响的,不过为人妻为人母后,最不关心的倒是身材了,因为见多了胖的屁颠还快乐得不得了的新妈妈们,那种看着孩子成为自己新的生命寄托,绝对是分散了从前对自身的注意力的。
     
    昨天一天我都不停地看着手表,从下午到夜里不停地问胖胖,“去年现在我在干什么呀?”“那现在呢?”...看着满地乱爬的小茜米,再回忆这些小胳膊小腿在偶肚子里的对比,由衷觉得人活一世,就是图的这种家庭氛围 - 男耕女织已是远去的亘古意境,但是儿女绕膝的快乐则是永恒的真谛。
     
    茜茜,你一岁了,爸爸妈妈最大的快乐就是看着红润的小嘴唇蹦出天真的字节,看着你微翘的小屁股极为滑稽地扭计扭计在地上爬。
     
    茜茜,我的女儿,爸爸妈妈祝你生日快乐。
    我们的全部。茜茜。
     

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